The application of big data in the life size sex doll industry is quietly reshaping social aesthetic standards. An analysis of 4 million orders for the flat chested sex doll by a certain platform showed that the waist-to-hip ratio of the best-selling model strictly follows the "golden ratio" of 0.7. This algorithm-optimized body template is influencing reality through social media. Even more disturbing is the popularity of AR try-on applications - users can convert any woman's photo into a flat chested sex doll model for "virtual transformation". This function was reported for abuse 1.27 million times within three months of its launch. This kind of aesthetic violence under technological empowerment makes it difficult for women to escape the fate of being objectified in digital space.